Mother's Day gifts readied.
Make new friends, but keep the old;
Those are silver, these are gold.
Those are silver, these are gold.
This bit of folk wisdom has been rattlin' round in the grey matter this week. It's been a long slog of a winter and my current aim to attempt to match nature's exploding exuberance. Reconnecting with some long-time friends in the past week has done much to revitalize my slumped mettle.
Perhaps it's because we're in the midst of mother/father's day and graduation season is all around, but sentimentalism is in the air. In that spirit, I offer laconic homages to these stalwart and steady friends.
During a delightful lunch on a sunny Seattle Sunday, I realized that G and I have been friends for twenty-six years. We met when my dad's school hired her for her first teaching job. She's courageous and zest-filled and continually brings buoyancy to my life. She also was my first piano teacher.
That sentence alone needs to be engraved somewhere. While I was immersed in conversation at a recent dinner party; speaking of career paths, etc. I realized what a gift those piano lessons were.
At 16, I had no inkling of an idea that I would be a professional musician and that my career would take me around the world. And part of that began with those after-school lessons--pounding out Bach to drown out the janitor's vacuum in that tiny Oregon classroom. Who knew that path would meander through Carnegie Hall and throughout Europe? Who knew that I would conduct myriad choirs and teach hundreds of students? It started with a half-hour piano lesson.
Thank you.
Had tea yesterday morning with another strong woman. A entered my life as an elementary student and we morphed from mentor/student to friendship to sisterhood. She brings beauty to everything--from painting her house perfectly to raising three gorgeous children to her incredible zaniness. She has provided a durable help-line for every crisis in my life.
Thank you.
And the final nod of gratefulness from the weekend goes to my aunt E. There really isn't a way to express the depth of our friendship. I've learned so much from her: baking, sewing, gardening, a deep love of words and music, delight in wit and fashion. Her wisdom and advice is invaluable. As is the stability of her address; as I've wandered the world, it is steadying to be able to know that her home is always there.
Thank you.
Thank you.
(the view from her driveway yesterday)
End of mawkish meanderings; please don't be offended if you weren't written about--these were just the three friends whom I saw in the past few days.
And now it's back to the job hunt...
Awwwww. So nice to see our friendship through your eyes, and to be seen so benevolently. :) Friends are a blessing I far under-appreciated before the isolating vicissitudes of my work in the last ten years settled in.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely tribute to two friends and an aunt - sometimes we take for granted how faithful people have shaped our lives.
ReplyDeleteTsk - banal, don't be silly. That was sweet, and I'm jealous of the gorgeous tulips in your neck of the world.
ReplyDeleteThe doggerel verse is the banal bit--the rest is not :)
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, the things that are blooming around here right now are stunning. It's easy to just stop/stare.